I read about RDP on Raspbian, but how about the Raspbmc desktop; is there a way to do a remotely connect into it?
Seems like the real answer lies in the Raspbmc FAQ:
RDP, just like VNC, relies on the X11 window system—the same limitation applies:
How to install XRDP Run the following command once your logged into your Raspberry Pi over SSH.
How to make it run at boot. Following is from the link, more elaborate ways can be found with Google.
With LSB tags, you can: