I read about RDP on Raspbian, but how about the Raspbmc desktop; is there a way to do a remotely connect into it?
Seems like the real answer lies in the Raspbmc FAQ:
Q: Can I run a VNC server on Raspbmc?
A: No. VNC relies on the X11 window system, but Raspbmc’s XBMC implementation is rendered in the framebuffer only. Thus VNC cannot be used as there is no X-session available for connection.
RDP, just like VNC, relies on the X11 window system—the same limitation applies:
How to install XRDP Run the following command once your logged into your Raspberry Pi over SSH.
sudo apt-get install xrdp
How to make it run at boot. Following is from the link, more elaborate ways can be found with Google.
With LSB tags, you can:
update-rc.d xrdp defaults
update-rc.d xrdp remove