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The best approach to remotely manage (and update) RPi is like with any other Linux: via SSH. Connect to it with SSH client and do anything you want to, including apt update / apt dist-upgrade.
There could be problem to connect to something remotely via 4G, because for that you need it to have a public routable address or at least some port forwarded to it, ...
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