I don't have any monitor. I have installed Raspbian in RPi. I have remotely accessed Raspberry pi through my PC via SSH through ethernet cable. All I want to do is to access wifi through edup EP-N8531 wifi adapter(802.11n USB Wireless verified peripheral). Whenever I connect wifi dongle to Raspberry pi it was showing:

network connection reset by peer.

I am running XMing server (here) in my PC. Is operating RPi via SSH creating problem, If I were to install settings via SSH do I have to follow different technique, If anyone knows step by step procedure to install wifi driver in Raspberry pi pease help me.